The Pillars of Leadership


Your Complete Guide To Raising Your Children To Be The Next Generation of Changemakers, Innovators and Paradigm-Disrupting Leaders

Barack Obama, Nelson Mandela, Oprah Winfrey, Jacinda Ardern, Walt Disney, Thomas Edison.
Get the exact parenting tactics that the world’s most extraordinary leaders were raised with - all in one blueprint. 

Parents of the world’s greatest, 
most consequential leaders have understood the key to raising amazing humans for generations...

And it isn’t found between the pages of any parenting book on the market.

Instead, they embraced this core truth:

YOU are the exact right parent for YOUR child.
YOU possess everything needed to unlock your child’s greatest potential.

YOU are the answer.

“Cathy’s gentleness belies a fearless commitment to effectively communicating at every level, from sweet laughter to tough conflict resolution. I’ve seen her do both and she’s inspiring”

- Jane Jordan, Money and You.

Don’t Settle For Potential

Your child’s untapped excellence can change the world.

Families that invest in developing the unique genius of their child live in bubbles of joy.

Their children are kind, fulfilled, confident connoisseurs of the opportunities of life.

This is not about being immune, or oblivious, to life's challenges.

Quite the contrary.

This is about embracing all of life.

The good.

The bad.

The ugly.

The seemingly impossible.

This is about tapping into your own special genius as THE catalyst for your child’s connection to their greatness.

Radical transformation.

Epic elevation.

When we, as parents; teachers; caregivers; as humans; embrace the Pillars Of Leadership, a child’s excellence becomes fully expressed. 

For. Life.

  • The athletic child becomes the team and community leader.
  • The artistic child steps into their role as creative visionary.
  • The influencer redefines the creator economy.
  • The musician orchestrates paradigm shifts.
  • The writer gives voice to the disenfranchised.
  • The academic shifts from scholar to ambassador of knowledge.
And the mysteriousThe child that no one can quite figure out. Possibly even that child’s very own parents. This child becomes so steadfast in their inner knowing that they blaze a trail from extraordinarily misunderstood to historic figure.

I Don’t Need To Tell You About Excellence

You are smart. Successful. Hard working.

“Good” has never been enough for you.

You, my friend, are one of the greats.

And your child. Your legacy. Your prodigy.
They were born ready.

To lead.

To innovate.

To redefine what it looks and feels like to leverage power and insight to answer the cries for change being echoed across the globe.

You are a rock star. A high achiever.

When something matters to you, you make it happen.

Your child is the most important thing in your life.

You would stop at nothing to welcome them into their most expansive version of success, fulfillment, and happiness.

Surely, you’ve got this.



Yes, but...

Most Parenting Advice Prevents You From Empowering Your Child

The problem is not you. It is not your parenting ‘style’. It is not your discipline, or lack of it. It is not any of the countless investments of time, money and energy that have been made in your steadfast quest to raise a happy, healthy, and productive member of society that didn’t quite work out as planned.

We have listened to the parenting gurus repeat a reckless lie for generations: that there is only one way to care for children, one generic approach to raising “good” kids - and to being a good enough parent.

We have been led to believe we need to look for answers.

To fix our children. To distrust ourselves. To hide what goes on in our homes.

To conform to the unconformable.

To do it alone, and to look longingly up to those who are parenting properly.


I see you.

I honor you.

I am here cheering you on.

Let me tell you a secret...

No One Knows How To Raise Children

I work privately with some of the most successful parents in the world to decode the hidden gems of genius within their children.

I can tell you with certainty that every child has their own distinct gift.

Raising children as a process. A methodology. A right and wrong.

It simply does not work.

I have nurtured hundreds of children and families into greatness over a span of more than two decades.

I have turned around classrooms of the most ‘unruly’ children from chaos to breeding grounds for love and leadership.

I am raising 5 of my own children - all on the Autism spectrum.

The Pillars Of Leadership are the keys to success for each of the above scenarios; and the Blueprint is my gift to every kind of parent and caregiver.

I am here to inspire you into your next level of parenting, and all that makes possible for your child.

My fellow parents, it is high time we take our power back.

It Is Time For Your Very Own

Stop wondering. Stop worrying.

The Pillars Of Leadership Blueprint was purpose built to empower YOU
as you guide your child to their North Star.

Your Child’s Future Starts Now

Discover How To Tap Into Your Own Genius So You Can Empower Your Child’s Greatness

When you understand the core beliefs, values, ethics and principles embodied by not just our great leaders, but their parents, you start to see a clear path forward.

A clear roadmap for how to raise your prodigy to become a heart-centered, paradigm-changing leader.

An explicit blueprint for building and maintaining a solid foundation focused on the essential characteristics of a great leader.

Access Your Blueprint for Just $27!

I Want To Make One Thing Crystal Clear

I Am Not A Perfect Parent, Nor Do I Want To Be.


As are you, for yours.

As Seen In

Listen up, 

I know you want to be the best parent possible for your children. Whatever your dream for them may be, you no doubt want to raise them to be kind humans, great leaders and successful individuals.

That’s why you’ve spent so much time, effort, and money entertaining the thought of the silver bullet — that one piece of advice, parenting “system”, investment, expert, or philosophy that will finally do the trick.

Here’s the thing: you aren’t going to find it.
You already HAVE the silver bullet.

It’s YOU. 

You see, for generations, we’ve gotten parenting wrong. In the past, parents were overly focused on discipline and obedience. The child was to be silent, small, insignificant.

As that generation began parenting, the pendulum swung too far in the other direction. Permissiveness became the predominant way to parent. Children were given too much control, allowed to steer the ship with little to no direction. The result was a weak generation of individuals who were sheltered, coddled and enabled.

The only way to change course now is to approach parenting from a place of deep intuition and self-trust. Drown out all the noise and get back to fundamentals: 

  • Respect
  • Honor
  • Discipline
  • Kindness
  • Discernment
  • Integrity
  • Perseverance
  • Empathy

Start ignoring all the noise and focus on how world-changing leaders are actually made.

I created The Pillars of Leadership Blueprint for parents like you. Parents who are tired of sorting through standards set by others. Parents who have been disempowered by all the preachy, judgmental should and should nots shouted from a million different directions. Parents who are ready to raise a new generation of the leaders our world demands, ready to tap into all of the yet-to-be-unlocked potential inside their young prodigies.

If you’re ready to say ENOUGH with the nonsense, then you need to get your copy of The Pillars of Leadership Blueprint.

If You Want To Raise Children Who...

  • Feel valued, loved and free from shame…while also being accountable and held to high expectations.
  • Are kind, resilient, successful humans…rather than powerless, self-entitled victims.
  • Will smash through the current harmful Us vs. Them mentality that has overtaken our culture…so they can hear opposing viewpoints & admit when they’re wrong, as all great, world-changing leaders do.

World-Changing Leaders

  • Aren’t afraid of adversity, uncomfortable conversations or hard work.
  • Accept consequences with humility and self-reflection.
  • Welcome mistakes as learning opportunities and setbacks as plot twists.
  • Are empowered to save themselves rather than be rescued by someone else.
World-changing leaders show up for the world, and, equally importantly, for themselves in this way because they followed the example and guidance of effective parents. Are you ready to step into that same role for your child?

Let the insights into the upbringing of Barack Obama, Nelson Mandela, Oprah Winfrey, Jacinda Ardern, Walt Disney, and Thomas Edison guide you!

Inside The 

The Pillars of Leadership


 I show you how to raise the type of incredible, visionary leader who has the power to change the world. The kind of power that comes from within.

Inside out leadership.



But first...

You need to understand one very important truth:

There is no one-size-fits-all parenting style.


Are The Exact Right Parent For Your Child…

It’s time to trust your instincts and develop the strong, 
values-based foundation your prodigy needs.

We are all in this together. If we fail to do this, we risk a future devoid of capable leaders who will rise to the demands of our evolving world. If we fail to do this, our children step out into the world uncertain, unfulfilled, and ripe for exploitation.

It’s time to unfollow all the #parenting accounts in your feed..

Throw out all your How to Raise Little Humans With Whole Brain Gentle Parenting As a Logical Yet Conscious Caregiver in the 21st Century books.

It’s all rubbish.
Quite frankly, it’s past time to burn it all down.

You don’t need another “expert” in your ear,
causing you to second-guess your intuition and instincts.

The Pillars Of Leadership Blueprint Is Not Another Parenting Book

 It is a guide for parents who are ready and willing to redefine parenting on their own terms. To identify, instill, and reinforce the core values, beliefs, ethics and principles of their prodigy - the ones that will be pivotal in moving them comfortably into their place in society as highly effective, highly empathetic leaders.

“Cathy Domoney is the sweetest, kindest, most generous-in-spirit person I know (except for my wife!). She is masterful when it comes to child empowerment. I could think of no better person to deal with my, at times, difficult children than Cathy (except for my wife!). Cathy’s doing such wonderful and worthwhile work.”

 - Bill Bennett, Award winning author and film director

Everything you’ve ever heard about what it takes to be a “good” parent is wrong. 

It’s either convoluted and over-complicated, or it’s weak and watered down.

The truth is…

Effective parents of great leaders share one key trait: They trust themselves to be the best (and only) authority on how to raise their children…and their trust comes from a place of extraordinarily strong principles.

Applying her more than two decades working with children and families, including her own five children, each with neurodivergent abilities, Cathy Domoney set out to uncover the blueprint used by parents of our greatest leaders, in politics, pop culture and beyond:
  • Barack Obama
  •  Nelson Mandela
  •  Oprah Winfrey
  • Jacinda Ardern
  • Walt Disney
  • Thomas Edison
Each epic leader was raised by parents who deeply trusted themselves. Parents who felt a strong duty to their greater community, who held themselves to the highest standards. Parents who modeled the very behaviors and characteristics they expected of their children, and who were brave enough to admit when they got it wrong.

Parents who lived and breathed the fundamental principles they wanted to instill in their children, and who remained unwavering in their determination to raise remarkable humans.

Get the parenting tactics that the world’s most extraordinary leaders were raised with. All in one easy to apply blueprint for your family.

This Is Exactly How I Stepped Into My Excellence (and sanity!) In Parenting My Five Children

My name is Cathy Domoney, and I show parents how to raise exquisite humans who will grow up to change our world.
  • I’ve worked with hundreds of children and families (including some of the most high achieving parents on the planet), transforming lives and empowering genius for more than 20 years.
  • I work with deep discretion in service to the Luxury Market, helping highly successful parents Decode the Genius of their children, paving the way for our next generation of leaders.
  • I developed the extraordinary concept of Radical Empathy, which I use to empower children and families in monumental ways.
  • I am a TRTP Trauma Certified Practitioner, I am able to rapidly relieve parents and families of even the deepest and most haunting traumas and move them into the space where they are able to finally understand, embrace, and own their, and their child’s brilliance.
  • My background in sociology, psychology, counseling, teaching, hypnotherapy and life coaching informs my work with families; however, my distinct gift is my ability to speak raw, authentic, vulnerable truth, pushing children and parents to access their greatest potential.
  • I am the author of multiple best-selling books, including the Positive Mindset For Kids Series.

…And I’m not afraid to ruffle feathers in the parenting world.

Take Your First Step Toward Parenting Greatness With The Pillars Of Leadership Blueprint

My radical approach to parenting with empathy, even when doing so flies in the face of any parent’s protective instincts, has earned me fierce criticism.

When my child was viciously bullied by a peer, rather than give in to the anger and profound sadness I felt, rather than demand punishment and harsh consequences, I saw his bully for what he was: a child who was hurting.
A child who was just as deserving of love, respect and care as my own children.

And so, rather than react as most parents would, I wrote him a letter. I told him that we had no hate in our hearts for him, and that he was worthy of love. I told him about mistakes I’ve made in the past and offered him a glimpse of what radical acceptance feels like.

This is the type of parenting that will change our world, and it’s exactly what I describe inside the Blueprint.

Access your copy today for just $27:  

“Hey Cathy, I want to thank you for your beautiful books, my children now have these amazing, authentic conversations with each other. Thank you for bringing such needed education to my children.” 

- Jess Clair, The Social Media School | Humanity-Led Business.

"Cathy is incredibly gifted as an intuitive guide for anyone who values deep seeing and subtly sophisticated support in aligning with their true essence. She sees deeply, cares deeply, feels deeply, and serves with tremendous integrity and presence. Her passion and commitment to young people is palpable, and there is no question she is doing the work she's meant to do right now in the world, in a time when children need her gifted support more than ever."

- Anne Rose Hart, M.A., Creator of QUANTUM PLAYTM.

"My good friend, Cathy Domoney, is the author of some beautiful books, and tackle some complex situations such as bullying, self-worth, and self-image and the many issues that children are going through these days. This is not just challenging for the children, but also for the parents. Cathy is most qualified to deal with these issues, with over eighteen years’ experience helping young people to improve their mindset… so that they can navigate through life in a very empowered way, and she has done an outstanding job. I cannot recommend them enough, thanks Cathy Domoney, you’ve done an amazing job!”

- Natalie Ledwell, Mind Movies | Bestselling Author.

Here’s Exactly What You Can Expect From The Pillars of Leadership Blueprint:

 9 Core Leadership Characteristics Defined, Each With:

A brutally honest look at where we are now and how we got here.

A look inside “Many parents have been indoctrinated into the belief that we need to consistently tell our children how perfect and wonderful they are…Otherwise we may traumatize them and dull their shine. This is not so!”

How we must shift the parenting paradigm instead, with practical examples and real-life anecdotes from Cathy’s work:

A look inside: “As parents, we must hold them accountable to their best selves. We need to tell them when they’re wrong or when they must try harder. We must be brave enough to say ‘I see your greatness and I’m going to hold you to it.’” 

Data and insights from experts, thought leaders and the greatest role models of all time.

A look inside: “Not enough people are taking smart risks or creating and sharing bold ideas to meet changing demands and the insatiable need for innovation” — Brené Brown 

Portraits of great leaders whose parents embraced the pillars of leadership.

A look inside: “Jacinda Ardern grew up with a strong sense of community and family. She was not shielded from the full impact of the world around her, and so she developed a very strong sense of justice and service. Her resilience, self-awareness and humility lead her to become the Head of New Zealand’s government.”

Actionable advice for fostering each leadership pillar with your children.

A look inside: “Resist the urge to solve everything…and accept that this is tougher than it sounds! Whether it’s watching them struggle to tie their shoes or watching as they navigate through depression, it will hurt your heart. Step up, link arms with them and let them see that they are fully supported every step of the way.”

Bonus: An in-depth look at Cathy’s core philosophy Radical Empathy, her framework for coaching highly successful seven-figure parents into raising truly extraordinary children.

A look inside: “Love isn’t just for when it’s easy and convenient. Radical empathy empowers everyone.”

Your Price: Just $27

This Is The Best Way to Avoid Harmful Parenting Advice & Actually Start Raising The Future Leaders Our World Demands…

Make the kind of impact that the parents of Barack Obama, Nelson Mandela, Oprah Winfrey, Jacinda Ardern, Walt Disney, and Thomas Edison made on the world, and their children.
"Cathy has made such a difference to our lives! She has coached our teenage son and I have seen his thinking change from unmotivated, angry and lost; to motivated and happy, with a stronger sense of identity and high goals. We have seen psychologists in the past but Cathy has helped him change his way of thinking much faster than they ever did. I can’t rave enough about this extraordinary woman!"

- Jessica ~ Australia.

"I just wanted to express my gratitude for the time it’s taken to help us. Your words seemed to instantly buoy me up and make me believe in the power we have within us to help Alexander, and ourselves, to make the changes we want. I also wanted to say how inspired I am by your own story, and the achievements you’ve made yourself and for your children in spite of the difficulties you faced. It makes me proud to be a woman and a mother to know there are women like you."

- Caroline ~ U.K.

"The change in my daughter’s way of thinking after working with Cathy was remarkable, I now have a daughter who is happy to try new experiences and seems to have a new lease on life. Thank you again, Cathy, for allowing her to work with you, I would definitely recommend you. I never thought she would stop being so insecure and overthinking but she's so much better!”

Thank you, Cathy." 

- Joan ~ USA.

Ready to change everything for your family?

Get the exact blueprint I start from when working 1:1 with my premium clients.

Order your copy today & I’ll include an exclusive bonus video guiding you through the blueprint so you can benefit more deeply from the material.

Fair Warning:

Don’t Bother With The Blueprint If…

  • You are fine with following mainstream parenting advice, no matter how ineffective or incomplete.
  • You don’t believe your children are capable of greatness, so you’re fine letting them continue on a path of mediocrity.
  • You are unwilling to reflect on your own actions and potential weaknesses…you’re fine with do as I say, not as I do type parenting.

This is for a very specific type of parent: 

  • You believe your children are capable of extraordinary things.
  • You struggle to know the “right” way to parent, feeling pulled a thousand different directions by all the gurus out there.
  • Your worst fear is raising an entitled, self-absorbed human who expects the world to cater to them.
  • You have a deep desire to empower your children to be the absolute best, most impactful versions of themselves.

If that’s you...

“Raising children who are hopeful and who have the courage to be vulnerable means stepping back and letting them experience disappointment, deal with conflict, learn to assert themselves, and have the opportunity to fail.”

— Brené Brown

Our children deserve to be equipped with the tools, resilience and hopefulness that only comes with experiencing, and dealing with, the full gamut of this messy life.

It’s time to stop sheltering them from the hard stuff and start teaching them how to face anything that may come with the confidence of knowing they are strong enough to handle it.

If you want this for your children, you have a few options:


You can keep searching for that silver bullet, your perfect-fit parenting strategy packaged for you by some “expert”, and you can hope it empowers you enough to avoid raising coddled, entitled kids.



You could spend a few dollars on a highly impactful blueprint that has been proven to spark incredible transformation again and again, both within my own family, and in the families of my clients.
I break down the parenting style that made the likes of Barack Obama, Nelson Mandela, Oprah Winfrey, Jacinda Ardern, Walt Disney, and even Thomas Edison successful, so you can do this too with your own family.

Harness your innate parenting genius so you can raise your children to become their greatest, most equipped, capable and effective selves ever, period.

Ready to raise the next great leader?

P.S. In case you are one of those highly-efficient, straight-to-the-point people (I see you!) and you just scrolled past everything above, here’s the offer. 

For only $27, I’ll give you a copy of the exact blueprint I start from when coaching my exclusive 1:1 clients. 
Yes, that’s right. I’m giving you a peek inside my proprietary philosophy, The Pillars of Leadership, developed over two decades of educating, coaching, parenting and listening.

I’ll show you how to bypass all the disempowering parenting advice out there, and actually zero in on the foundational characteristics shared by our greatest leaders, with practical advice you can begin implementing now.

Then, you’ll be able to raise your children to the most highly empathetic, effective and empowered leaders possible, so they can grow up to quite literally change the world.

If this sounds like something you desire as a parent, grab your copy of The Pillars of Leadership Blueprint for just $27, so you can change course and begin steering your children to greatness.